Chances are, your positions are not the primary problem in people believing that you are for them, but your posture toward them. What are you known for? Being FOR people or against them? In order to be FOR the people that God is FOR, we need think differently about our posture, and put that ahead of our positions.
You can’t have your best us without kindness.
To maintain integrity we must make up our minds ahead of time to be guided by integrity.
To create a church you love, you must be relentless about reaching people for Jesus.