Chances are, your positions are not the primary problem in people believing that you are for them, but your posture toward them. What are you known for? Being FOR people or against them? In order to be FOR the people that God is FOR, we need think differently about our posture, and put that ahead of our positions.
Jesus died on the cross and rose from the grave to set us free, but experiencing that freedom is a choice.
We defeat inadequacy by, like David, deciding to do what only we can do and using what God has given us.
The negative thoughts that are On Repeat are negatively impacting everything.