Chances are, your positions are not the primary problem in people believing that you are for them, but your posture toward them. What are you known for? Being FOR people or against them? In order to be FOR the people that God is FOR, we need think differently about our posture, and put that ahead of our positions.
God does immeasurably more when we generously give Him our first and our best.
Finding a model we can emulate or an example we can follow helps us take something we wish was true about our life and...
Jesus died on the cross and rose from the grave to set us free, but experiencing that freedom is a choice.