Chances are, your positions are not the primary problem in people believing that you are for them, but your posture toward them. What are you known for? Being FOR people or against them? In order to be FOR the people that God is FOR, we need think differently about our posture, and put that ahead of our positions.
Every lost person is valuable to God, so we must be on a relentless search to find them. How are you “Investing & Inviting”...
Following Jesus happens one next step at a time. What's your next step?
Patience is proof of humility before God and with others Who am I being impatient with, and what is that proving?