Chances are, your positions are not the primary problem in people believing that you are for them, but your posture toward them. What are you known for? Being FOR people or against them? In order to be FOR the people that God is FOR, we need think differently about our posture, and put that ahead of our positions.
A large issue that can cause division in the church is gender identity. The issue of gender identity is not a new thing but...
One perception that people about followers of Christ is that they are AGAINST people. This should never be perceived about Followers of Christ because...
We defeat inadequacy by, like David, deciding to do what only we can do and using what God has given us.