Chances are, your positions are not the primary problem in people believing that you are for them, but your posture toward them. What are you known for? Being FOR people or against them? In order to be FOR the people that God is FOR, we need think differently about our posture, and put that ahead of our positions.
The negative thoughts that are On Repeat are negatively impacting everything.
If we choose to unfollow Jesus, we are choosing to follow someone or something else instead.
Whatever we magnify gets magnified. Are you choosing to magnify Jesus?