Chances are, your positions are not the primary problem in people believing that you are for them, but your posture toward them. What are you known for? Being FOR people or against them? In order to be FOR the people that God is FOR, we need think differently about our posture, and put that ahead of our positions.
We were created for more than this world, and we all have a desire to be “home” but how do we get there? Jesus...
God came to be with us to remove our excuses from us.
To be a part of a mature body we must contribute.